Do you ever wonder how some moms seem to do it all? Every month, we sit down and chat with a mom who does it all and has it all. This month, we’re featuring Dr. Lynn Dever, MD. Lynn has 25 years of experience as a board certified pediatrician, and almost as much experience as a mom--she has a 23-year-old daughter and a 21-year-old son and lives with her husband of 27 years in Bucks County, PA. We know it's not fair that she's so gorgeous to boot. Balancing kids and a successful career for years, Lynn leaves us asking a simple question: How does she do it?
What do you enjoy most about being a mom?
The unconditional love that I feel for, and receive from, my children. Although they are grown now and I miss them, I am so comforted knowing I have raised good, happy people who have achieved so much. I cherish every moment that I am with them and love spending time with them.
What was the most rewarding part of breastfeeding?
Breastfeeding is definitely one of my life’s best experiences. It is difficult to put into words how wonderful it was to breastfeed. The closeness and intense love that I felt truly cannot be replicated.
Was it hard balancing life as a busy mom and working pediatrician?
It was extremely difficult at times but I knew I was doing the best that I could for our children. Having a supportive husband who was a great dad helped. I made a lot of sacrifices personally and professionally, but I can look back now and know I did my best. This is one area of your life that you do not get a second chance at. There is plenty of time for sleep and everything else when they are grown.
What’s your advice for newly breastfeeding moms?
I tell moms who are newly breastfeeding to relax and give it two weeks. By then things start to fall into place. Worrying is not necessary. The pediatrician will guide you and make sure the baby is thriving.
How can moms make breastfeeding easier and more comfortable?
Relax, take some deep breaths and enjoy the moment. Worrying about the baby and all you could be doing makes breastfeeding a chore rather than the incredible experience that it is. Remember: this time is very short, but the dividends are huge!
